To me this was the most important conversation I had with my kids when they were teens. I wasn't able to keep them from seeing it, and frankly, I didn't really want to. They're post-millennial, so they were online early. Kids believe what they see and hear. I didn't want them to think porn sex was how most of us experienced sex. It is entertainment with actors made for a specific audience. This was just as important for my boy to understand as my girl. I have nothing against porn. I'm an avid consumer of porn, but as with all my purchases, I spend wisely.