So conflicted about this story. As a lesbian, I love the sexy woman and her activities. And most definitely your description of your corset 😉. But consent, even consensual nonconsent, is lacking. This man is a terrible human being. The woman may be, too. I can't imagine going into such a situation and not being clear with the woman about what's up. Your moment-by-moment anaysis of your feelings, however, is wonderful.